Wednesday, 30 April 2014

National Best Friend Day ?

Hey Guys!
Hope your all okay?
Recently it feels like there has been a National Day for Everything..
(I honestly would not be suprised if National Pet Goldfish Day Came about)
Anywho,When I saw what todays 'day' was I just had to join in.
Everyone tends to have a Best Friend.
I am not one to lie - I don't have a huge group of friends,but the few I do have,I love to bits..
So this makes this day very difficult to define a 'Best Friend'
So I figured I would have way of doing this..
Into Sections!
Childhood (and still..) Bestfriend.
My Best Friend from the age of 5 we have grown up together and still manage to have A Giggle together.
As kids we were pretty inseperable and even outside of school we were always at each others houses!

Its easy to say that with Hannah I had the most carefree of my memories,at the age of 5 and upwards all you want to do is have fun!
And even when the first year of scondary school began - regardless of going to different schools we still made time to see one another.
As life does,we continued with our lives,always keep each other in the loop but sometimes as we get older things can change but as soon as I was unwell one of the first people to come and see me when I was told I would need a transplant was Hannah and Her Mom.
We laughed for hours about all our memories growing up and she kept it fresh in my mind that life is a amazing and fun thing,and I wanted to be that happy carefree person again,because at the age of 18 waiting for a transplant?
Sometimes you forget those kind of things.
She supported me when I went to my first day back at college and it was like primary school all voer again - Hannah was always the more confident of the two of us!
And now?
Well She agreed to be my Maid Of Honor so it just shows sometimes friends we make as children?
They never leave :)
Teenage Years - Now ?
As we all do as teens,Friendships groups tend to change alot,
And I made a lot of great friends (alot of which I still talk to - Hey Guys!)
And I loved them all to peices too.
But if we are talking closest friends?
The two that will always stick out?
Zainab & Irram.
These two are so loopy and its just what I need sometimes to keep fresh in my mind - HAVE FUN!
It is quite funny that when the three of us are together zainab is forever telling me and Irram to calm down.
But If im just with Zainab we are just as mad!
These two lovelys supported me through my illness and still we all try to meet as much as we can (difficult with me living miles away now..) but we talk an awful lot too!
Im not going to add photos of these two beauts because they only ever winge i have uploaded a 'bad' photo lol!
After Transplant.
So,I met Kirsty through Gareth and instantly clicked with her.
She is a mom to two beautiful little boys,and she still has all the time in the world for her friends.

She made me feel accepted back into a social enviroment straight away,which is very hard after you have spent two years in hospital.
My anxiety is never a problem to her,and she always trys to help!
I can't sing enough praises for her,because she has supported me through some pretty bad times and still kept me smiling!
For a long time I felt like I'd never fit in again because im so different but not once has Kirsty ever brought up my illness,she is probably one of the first people to treat me like a person not a health number!
Love Ya Chick!
The Cliche Best Friends..
My Fiance.
Cheese in 'ell.
My Fiance is my Bestfriend?
Yes its Cheesy BUT it's true.
Most of you know I have moved away from home and moved down to Bedfordshire to be with him,so all of my other friends above are back in Birmingham.
I only have one friend to count on then. Gareth.
He is one of the only guy's who has every accepted how much of a crazy person I am,but he doesn't make me feel like thats a bad thing!
We have a lot of laughs together,regardless of him being my fiance
Ofcourse though that is a positive he he.
My Baby Sister.
This little cutie has most defiantly had the biggest impact on my life then any other person.
She was only a few months old when I got sick,and she was my point of call when I needed motivation to keep on fightining and staying strong.
I never thought I would ever find myself loving someone as much as I love her,and I can't believe how big shes getting.
I love watching her grow and I hope as she gets older I can continue to try and Inspire her to do whatever she wants in life and to be happy.
So Thats it guys!
My Best Friends!
Who are yours?
Do you agree these National Made Up Days are getting abit over kill now?
Stay Safe & Speak Soon.



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